They are inevitable; everyone is bound to have a crush or two especially in middle or high school. Do you find yourself liking someone a lot and wonder what to do about it? First you have to decide if you really want to find out if your crush like you back or not. Finding out could get you upset or spoil the fun and mystery of having a crush and not knowing if they like you. If you really want to find out and are prepared for the worst then i will tell you what you can do.
You can send your friend to find out whether your crush likes you or not and to find out how much he/she really likes you and other details like what he/she like to do. Your friend will be like a spy to get info for you! Tell your friend not to be too suspicious. They have to be subtle about it. I would recommend not sending your best friend because then your crush might suspect something if they know you guys are best friends. An don't send someone who will expose you.
Another thing that you can do, if you're brave enough, is ask them yourself. You have to get to the point and don't beat around the bushes. You also have to be confident. Tell them how you really feel(if it's a boy remember that some boys don't really like smoochy stuff).
You can also start spending time with your crush and get to know them. Do things that he likes and things that you both have in common. Maybe he/she will start feeling the same way about you.
What is important to remember is that you are beautiful. If your crush doesn't feel the same way about you don't stress. You might not be their type. Don't change yourself to please anyone else.
Love, MsKnowItAll
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Saturday, 12 August 2017
Friday, 11 August 2017
Relationship Advice- When You're in a Relationship that Won't Work Out
If you're in love with someone and you have no future then you should forget about that relationship. Don't put time and effort into something that's not going to work out. Every relationship should have a goal in mind whether it's marriage or kids or whatever, you should have a goal of some sort. If you goal is to be with that person forever and they don't wan to be with you forever or you know that things won't work out then why are you still allowing yourself to be crazy over that person. I know it's hard to fall out of love but you have to try.
First, move on, that's the first step. Get rid of everything in your daily life that will keep reminding you of that person. You can't let them have a hold on you. You can't be in another relationship and still thinking about that person constantly, then you'll never move on. You have to want to move on, no want else can want it more than you. Decide to let go and never look back. Whenever you find yourself thinking about that person, stop yourself. Don't make it a habit to keep thinking about that person and not stopping yourself. If you want to start a new chapter, stop reading over the same chapters. Sometimes you need to start a whole new book.
It is not wise to keep that person as a friend. If you really don't wan to get back with them and you want to let go of them then don't be friends. Spending a lot of time around that person will not help your cause. You might not be able to let go of them if you see them all the time, or if you see them with someone new. Let them move on with they're life, and you move on with yours. They fail to see your beauty and don't want to be with you forever, get over it. There will be someone who wants to spend the rest of their lives with you.
Secondly, seek a relationship where you have future together. You might have to be alone for a while but it'll be worth it when you fall in love again. Wait for the right person, have patience. Don't go back to your ex when you feel lonely, that way they'll keep a grip on your heart and it will be harder to let go.
Thirdly, work on that new relationship. Put in the time and the effort and work on that relationship. Don't give up during the hard times. If you really love that person, and you can't live without them and really want a future together, them work at it. Make new memories and have fun!
Love, MsKnowItAll
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First, move on, that's the first step. Get rid of everything in your daily life that will keep reminding you of that person. You can't let them have a hold on you. You can't be in another relationship and still thinking about that person constantly, then you'll never move on. You have to want to move on, no want else can want it more than you. Decide to let go and never look back. Whenever you find yourself thinking about that person, stop yourself. Don't make it a habit to keep thinking about that person and not stopping yourself. If you want to start a new chapter, stop reading over the same chapters. Sometimes you need to start a whole new book.
It is not wise to keep that person as a friend. If you really don't wan to get back with them and you want to let go of them then don't be friends. Spending a lot of time around that person will not help your cause. You might not be able to let go of them if you see them all the time, or if you see them with someone new. Let them move on with they're life, and you move on with yours. They fail to see your beauty and don't want to be with you forever, get over it. There will be someone who wants to spend the rest of their lives with you.
Secondly, seek a relationship where you have future together. You might have to be alone for a while but it'll be worth it when you fall in love again. Wait for the right person, have patience. Don't go back to your ex when you feel lonely, that way they'll keep a grip on your heart and it will be harder to let go.
Thirdly, work on that new relationship. Put in the time and the effort and work on that relationship. Don't give up during the hard times. If you really love that person, and you can't live without them and really want a future together, them work at it. Make new memories and have fun!
Love, MsKnowItAll
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Thursday, 10 August 2017
When You Feel Like There's No Hope
I know someone who feels like giving up, who feels like there is no hope. She feels that things are unfair to her, and no matter how much she's tried nothing is improving. Well, friend, i have your advice right here.
Hold On, Pain Ends. This might seem like a cliche thing to say, but it's true. Pain really does end, all you have to do is endure.Decide what you want, why you want it, write ie down and work on it every single day. There will be times where you cry nonstop, when you feel suicidal, but think about it, can you change your life if you're dead? There are people who have completely turned their life around. Just when the caterpillar thought her life was over she became a butterfly. If she had given up (killed herself), she would have never became a butterfly and get to experience her new life as a butterfly. Your journey is very difficult, I know, but you can't give up now. Your struggles are building you, shaping you to be stronger. So in the future when you face more struggles they will be easier because you became stronger. You can't let the fire melt you, let it mold you. Don't let your struggle define you or your wealth. The stronger the storm, the brighter the rainbow. Your rainbow is gonna be one bright rainbow. The fact that you are not where you want to be should be enough motivation to persevere. If you want it bad enough then you'll keep going. Create a life that you won't need a vacation from. What you do today will affect your future. Work hard now to shop harder later. Trust me on this one!
Now things get personal. I have felt like things are just so unfair! How come others have life so easy and i'm here struggling to get a decent phone. But I've learnt that i will appreciate and value things more if i had to live without them. I will be stronger than the girls who have it easy. If one day they turn broke and have to endure a struggle, what will be their position? You were given this life because you're strong enough to live it. Imagine you, (name here) , is so strong that she was given such a hard life. Some very wealthy people aren't even happy with their wealth. Some of them are alone in a huge mansion. We have our families. We have love, we have people who care about us enough to see us going down a wrong path and correct us and that's what's important. What will it profit a man to gain the whole world but lose his soul?
When you are being disciplined think about the fact that she loves you. She wants to see you do well. She may come off as harsh, but she means well.
I can't stop the depression, only you can. I promise you that you won't be in that position forever. There are many windows of opportunity out there for you, you just need to hop through one of them and see how it works out. If it doesn't then go through anther one. Occupy your time doing what you love(that's what i like to do). Sing to your heart's content, write songs, dance, do whatever it takes it stay happy. Sometimes you just need to turn off the world and be by yourself. Deal with stress however you do(as long as it doesn't harm anyone or get you in trouble). I deal with stress by thinking about how nice it would be when i'm living in my mansion. I imagine myself as successful. I also do what i love(like writing and watching film). When i'm watching a movie or a series I feel like i'm in another world and that my realty isn't my reality. I feel he same way when i'm writing fiction. In my stories anything can happen. In reality I have to work a lot harder to achieve my goal, and i will. Keep dreaming, let it fuel your ambition and imagination and work at it everyday.
You can't change what people think or say about you, but you can change how you react to it. Ignore the haters. I know that it's easier said than done, but you have to try hard to do it. Whenever they talk about you just walk off, keep a straight face and think about something that makes you happy. Don't let them get to your head. They want to see you fail, they want to see you crack, but don't let them. If they try to pull you down then they're already below you. When they talk about your back they're already behind you. When they are mean it reflects their character. They will reap what they sow, and so will you, so do good and be a good person. In the end everyone will be held accountable for their own sins. So whatever they say, or whatever bad things happen to you, just chuck it in the fcuk it bucket and move on! Don't let what's going on around you get inside you and weigh you down. Let whatever's going on outside you stay outside you.
Each time you fail, you should learn from your mistake. Turn your experiences into wisdom. Don't be too hard on yourself for failing or doing something bad, just realize your mistake and learn from it. We all make mistakes, we all fail.n What makes a winner is the fact that he never gives up. Winners do fail but that one quality of not giving up is what makes them winners. You can be whatever you want to be and whoever you want to be.
Don't have your feelings cooped up inside. Talk to someone you trust(like me) so they can help you.
Live each day like it's gonna be your last. Don't count the days, make the days count.
So whenever you're feeling down and want to give up, remember what you are fighting for and why you are fighting for it.
Check out my more specific blog on different aspects of success and life
@theiandm.blogspot.com
I hope I inspired you to keep going
Love, MsKnowItAll
Do you have a problem? Well, ask MsKnowItAll for your free advice! No topic is off limits!
Hold On, Pain Ends. This might seem like a cliche thing to say, but it's true. Pain really does end, all you have to do is endure.Decide what you want, why you want it, write ie down and work on it every single day. There will be times where you cry nonstop, when you feel suicidal, but think about it, can you change your life if you're dead? There are people who have completely turned their life around. Just when the caterpillar thought her life was over she became a butterfly. If she had given up (killed herself), she would have never became a butterfly and get to experience her new life as a butterfly. Your journey is very difficult, I know, but you can't give up now. Your struggles are building you, shaping you to be stronger. So in the future when you face more struggles they will be easier because you became stronger. You can't let the fire melt you, let it mold you. Don't let your struggle define you or your wealth. The stronger the storm, the brighter the rainbow. Your rainbow is gonna be one bright rainbow. The fact that you are not where you want to be should be enough motivation to persevere. If you want it bad enough then you'll keep going. Create a life that you won't need a vacation from. What you do today will affect your future. Work hard now to shop harder later. Trust me on this one!
Now things get personal. I have felt like things are just so unfair! How come others have life so easy and i'm here struggling to get a decent phone. But I've learnt that i will appreciate and value things more if i had to live without them. I will be stronger than the girls who have it easy. If one day they turn broke and have to endure a struggle, what will be their position? You were given this life because you're strong enough to live it. Imagine you, (name here) , is so strong that she was given such a hard life. Some very wealthy people aren't even happy with their wealth. Some of them are alone in a huge mansion. We have our families. We have love, we have people who care about us enough to see us going down a wrong path and correct us and that's what's important. What will it profit a man to gain the whole world but lose his soul?
When you are being disciplined think about the fact that she loves you. She wants to see you do well. She may come off as harsh, but she means well.
I can't stop the depression, only you can. I promise you that you won't be in that position forever. There are many windows of opportunity out there for you, you just need to hop through one of them and see how it works out. If it doesn't then go through anther one. Occupy your time doing what you love(that's what i like to do). Sing to your heart's content, write songs, dance, do whatever it takes it stay happy. Sometimes you just need to turn off the world and be by yourself. Deal with stress however you do(as long as it doesn't harm anyone or get you in trouble). I deal with stress by thinking about how nice it would be when i'm living in my mansion. I imagine myself as successful. I also do what i love(like writing and watching film). When i'm watching a movie or a series I feel like i'm in another world and that my realty isn't my reality. I feel he same way when i'm writing fiction. In my stories anything can happen. In reality I have to work a lot harder to achieve my goal, and i will. Keep dreaming, let it fuel your ambition and imagination and work at it everyday.
You can't change what people think or say about you, but you can change how you react to it. Ignore the haters. I know that it's easier said than done, but you have to try hard to do it. Whenever they talk about you just walk off, keep a straight face and think about something that makes you happy. Don't let them get to your head. They want to see you fail, they want to see you crack, but don't let them. If they try to pull you down then they're already below you. When they talk about your back they're already behind you. When they are mean it reflects their character. They will reap what they sow, and so will you, so do good and be a good person. In the end everyone will be held accountable for their own sins. So whatever they say, or whatever bad things happen to you, just chuck it in the fcuk it bucket and move on! Don't let what's going on around you get inside you and weigh you down. Let whatever's going on outside you stay outside you.
Each time you fail, you should learn from your mistake. Turn your experiences into wisdom. Don't be too hard on yourself for failing or doing something bad, just realize your mistake and learn from it. We all make mistakes, we all fail.n What makes a winner is the fact that he never gives up. Winners do fail but that one quality of not giving up is what makes them winners. You can be whatever you want to be and whoever you want to be.
Don't have your feelings cooped up inside. Talk to someone you trust(like me) so they can help you.
Live each day like it's gonna be your last. Don't count the days, make the days count.
So whenever you're feeling down and want to give up, remember what you are fighting for and why you are fighting for it.
Check out my more specific blog on different aspects of success and life
@theiandm.blogspot.com
I hope I inspired you to keep going
Love, MsKnowItAll
Do you have a problem? Well, ask MsKnowItAll for your free advice! No topic is off limits!
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